Melissa's Post-N. Ireland Adventure

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Happy Christmas from Belfast...

Hello everyone! I hope that this finds you all having a joyous and bright holiday season. Things are great here in Belfast. Although I have found that the homesickness has reached a new level since it is almost Christmas and I am constantly reminded that I am not at home, surrounded by loved ones, my life here has it share of joys as well. These last couple of weeks have been absolutely jam packed with parties. I know, I know...poor me right? Who could ever complain about a schedule of parties. But, all of you teachers and educators and fellow volunteers will sympathize that parties with groups of screaming kids is enough to do your head in. While some of them have been sheer madness, others have given me some of my favorite memories of this place and time of my life thus far.

First of all I "graduated" from WT this last Saturday. While I was excited to be done and ready as always to move on to other things, I found myself quite sad that I was missing my ceremony back in good old Canyon. The whole week last week I yearned to be back at home getting ready for finals and the rush of the end of the semester. On Thursday I had a party where we were serving lunch to 60 some odd senior citizens for their Christmas dinner. I did not know the details, but knew that something was going to happen that day as my coworkers asked me to bring my laptop in and set it up to use skype. I was curious, but did not know what was going to happen really. That day after the lunch was over I was to lead carols with the pensioners, then the director came in and said that my Mom and Dad were going to be there via live video chat and that this week was a special week in my life and we were going to have a "wee graduation ceremony for our American volunteer". I was shocked and very very touched. They did the whole nine yards, they got the cap and made a mock certificate, announced my name and with 60 pensioners and all of my beloved coworkers in Belfast I graduated. It was the most memorable graduation I could think of. What an honor to have people care enough about me to have this all set up so that I could feel special in my achievement on graduating from University.

One of my other favorite glimpses of grace and peace this Advent season came with sitting and watching the kids from all of the groups I work with laugh and scream as a magician that we hired entertained them for an hour. All of the little ones fought over who got to sit by me on the floor as we watched the show, so we took shifts on who got to sit with me. There is nothing in this world as good as watching children laugh and smile. Their innocence and their unabashed sense of joy and happiness is nothing short of incredible to me and so very contagious. I find myself rejuvenated at the end of this week.

This concept of finding grace and peace has shaped my life this year. The idea that it is possible to seek out the pleasure in the moment is life changing. You have to actively seek out grace, love, happiness, peace, and joy out of the craziness that we call life. This Advent season as all of you gather with family and friends, look around, see the joy in your loved ones faces. Take each moment and live it to the fullest. As Christmas time comes nearer I continue to see love and joy, peace and grace in everything here. It's in my coworkers, it's in my friends, it's in the sadness I feel to be so far from home. How lucky I am that I have so much to miss and be sad about. Love is such a huge concept. I send love and peace, grace and unabashed childlike joy to each one of you. Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Years to all of you.

All my love and then some-

Melissa

4 Comments:

Blogger Mark said...

Oh my Sweet Melissa,

You are such an "old soul" my darling and I find that I am learning so much about life from you this year. It was our honor and pleasure to be present for your graduation last week and even though we couldn't hug you and congratulate you properly, know that you are always, always wrapped in our love. Thank you for your optimism, your insights and your courage. Merry Christmas darling and I hope your next few weeks are filled with more joy and peace than you can even imagine.

I love you so much honey,

Daddy

December 20, 2007 at 7:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dearest Melissa,
As you know we don't usually comment on your blog, just do it by e-mail, but wanted you to know that not only were you home-sick, but we're Melissa sick. We are missing you so much during this holiday season, as much as we miss the long talks and love we share with you. There is no way you can know the hole in our hearts with you being so far away. At the same time we know how much love you are sharing with the lucky people of Ireland and they with you. You are truly a treasure, and we love you so much.
Love,
Ma & Paw-Paw

December 20, 2007 at 2:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Melissa,

Merry Chrismas! I love you, I miss you, I can't wait to hear more about all your adventures in Ireland.

My love to you dear friend,
Cruse

December 24, 2007 at 7:41 AM  
Blogger Melody said...

Dear Melissa:
I thought of you as I sat at WT's graduation and it really wasn't the same without you there. You have been one of my favorite students, and now you'll be one of my favorite social workers as well! I know that you are learning a lot on this journey, and just think of the skills you'll have developed by the time you are done with your year there! I know that your family and friends must miss you so much - they must sacrifice along with you so that you can make changes in a tiny corner of the world, but especially within yourself. Enjoy Paris, kiddo - can't wait to hear about it!
Melody

December 29, 2007 at 6:33 PM  

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