Melissa's Post-N. Ireland Adventure

Monday, June 16, 2008

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

Hello all-

I have had several people ask why I have not posted a blog in a while. Well, there is no easy answer to that I am afraid. Mostly it has to do that my departure date from Belfast is getting closer and closer and I am not quite sure how I feel about it. 

Belfast very quickly felt like home. I have learned that home is a relative term in life. Home is where the heart is some may say and my heart, it's been in Belfast for a long time. 

While Texas will always be my real home, people and places will always make that home to me, Belfast, Canyon, soon to be St. Louis are all homes to me as well. These places are places where you grow, and even better, if you are lucky flourish. 

Though the stresses of living here are sometimes challenging, while some things about living her have never felt easy to me, it has grown on me. I have grown. To come and have an experience like this one and not be affected by it would prove that something was vastly wrong with me. I will miss so much. I will miss the unmistakable beauty of this place. I will miss the friends that I have grown to love. I will miss this time of my life, a time to grow, to flourish. 

So, as complicated as that is, as confusing as this mixed message may sound...that is where I am right now. I walk the line between being happy and sad for both leaving, and coming home. 

Maya Angelou sums it up as she always does with her graceful words: "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." 

Peace to all-

Melissa 

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow! Such an inadequate word to describe how that quote makes me feel. Melissa, again, I can't tell you how proud I am that you are a part of my family, that I have the honor and privilege of knowing you. We will all be happy when you get home, but I think I understand what you mean about the sad, sweet feeling of what "home" means to you. We love you, Juanita and Chick

June 17, 2008 at 4:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Melissa,

What a wonderful blessing you are to me. You have always made be feel like a much loved friend.

I'm so thankful for you and all the ways you have been part of my life!

Love you,
Cruse

June 30, 2008 at 7:07 PM  
Blogger Mark said...

Sweetheart-

You have grown so much in the last year and your writing has shown that in so many ways. I'll never be able to express to you how much I love you or how very proud I am of the wonderful young woman you've grown to be! Can't wait to see you in a few weeks darling!

Daddy

July 1, 2008 at 12:44 PM  
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